Anxiety Isn't the Enemy

Rachel Rauch • May 5, 2025

Understanding Your Body's Built-In Alarm System

I remember lying on the table at the chiropractor’s office years ago as she adjusted me. It was a spring afternoon, much like today.  I don’t remember our conversation, but I do distinctly recall commenting that I didn’t think I experienced much anxiety.  She burst out laughing at me. Insert your version of a startled or grimacing emoji. (And it wasn’t because she was adjusting my back!)  She replied, “Rachel, you are very anxious and don’t even realize it!”


That was when I realized that anxiety is far more than panic attacks. It isn’t just a fear of public speaking or a phobia of snakes.  (Although those are both legitimate reasons to feel anxious sometimes!)  No, anxiety is much further reaching than that.  Anxiety happens to those who are fearful and those who are brave.  It happens to corporate executives and stay-at-home moms. It is not a respecter of persons.  As a matter of fact, anxiety affects almost 20% of adults and 32% of teenagers.


But here’s the thing: God designed our bodies to experience anxiety! 


Wait.  What? 


How anxiety feels in the body and brain


Anxiety is a God-given response to fear that aims to protect us when our body or brain perceives a threat.  If we still lived in a perfect creation without any sin or brokenness in our world, the anxiety response would never need to be activated.  Unfortunately, that is not our reality.


So, if anxiety is more than panic attacks and phobias, how does it show up in our body and mind?


When a threat is imminent, your body will produce extra cortisol and adrenaline to prepare you to respond to the stressful situation and quickly re-establish safety.  You may be most familiar with this stress response as fight, flight, freeze, or fawn.  Some of the most common symptoms associated with this response include changes in your breathing, racing thoughts, jitteriness in your muscles, or maybe a heaviness instead in your muscles, sensations of heat or cold, heart palpitations, paralysis, a sense of dread, and loss of appetite.


Does that sound like anxiety?  The anxiety response from adrenaline activates and prepares your body to do whatever is necessary to find safety. This is a good thing!


Here’s the problem.  Our body and brain do not know the difference between a real and perceived threat.  It doesn’t know the difference between a car accident and an overloaded calendar.  Or a severe storm and a mountain of laundry.  If it creates overwhelm, it is perceived as a threat, and your body will respond with adrenaline and anxiety.


Sometimes your body and brain don’t know the difference between past trauma and current stress either.  Even if your brain forgets the details, it is still filtering all current events through the lens of past experiences.  Your body also stores past experiences in the muscles, tissue, and fascia.  When you feel overwhelmed, your body and brain respond through the filter of the past, increasing an anxious response to current circumstances.


According to Dr. Gregory Jantz, PhD in The Anxiety Reset, many other contributors make anxiety worse:


  • Underlying medical conditions
  • Genetic predisposition
  • Gender and hormones
  • Oxidative stress
  • Mitochondrial dysfunction
  • Brain chemistry
  • Past trauma or significant loss
  • Temperament
  • Unresolved emotional conflict
  • Cumulative or chronic stress
  • Excessive busyness or perfectionism
  • Substance abuse or other addictive behaviors
  • Information overload


Many of these contributors, along with our body and brain’s perception of constant threat, leave us with a low-grade hum of continual anxiety.  This often shows up as an inability to relax, poor sleep, fatigue, problems focusing, constant racing thoughts, feeling overly emotional, overstimulated by your environment, frustrated or discouraged by your inability to handle day-to-day responsibilities.


Testing for anxiety


You don’t have to remain stuck with anxiety, though.  You can take steps to address your anxious thoughts, starting with testing.  I often recommend these tests to my clients inside my Wholeness Restored Program.


  1. Salivary Cortisol Test - Measure your cortisol pattern throughout the day to identify how your cortisol levels contribute to anxiety and how to balance your cortisol.

  2. Neurotransmitter Test - Measures adrenaline along with several neurotransmitters such as serotonin, GABA, and dopamine, which help to determine your reactive stress and mood response.

  3. Histamine, Whole Blood Test - A marker of methylation status that contributes directly to your stress and anxiety response.

  4. Hair Mineral Tissue Analysis - A measurement of resilience and stress patterns in the body.

  5. DNA Test - Looks at mitochondrial and neurotransmitter production as it relates to stress and mood.

Rarely is it necessary to do all of these tests to determine the next steps to support your stress response.  That’s why I help my clients figure out which tests are a priority for them inside my Wholeness Restored Program.


Ways to relieve anxiety


I wish there were a quick fix for anxiety!  Whether the symptoms are low-grade or life-altering, anxiety is unpleasant!  But because God created the anxiety response as a mode of protection for us, we need to go back to the root cause and support our body’s innate healing process.


Here are my top 3 recommendations for addressing anxiety:


  1. Recognize anxiety as a God-given voice of protection and stop fighting or shaming the response.  Instead, get curious about the underlying cause of the anxiety.  This may not always be apparent.  Invite a trusted friend, mentor, or therapist into this journey with you. 

  2. Reduce anxiety-producing lifestyle choices such as caffeine and sugar consumption, insufficient sleep, and numbing through scrolling.  Instead, choose to spend more time outside enjoying nature, getting daily exercise and eating sufficient protein with every meal.

  3. Consider my Wholeness Restored Program in your healing journey.  This program includes necessary testing and targets the physical and emotional responses of stress and overwhelm, such as mood and anxious thoughts, hormone concerns, poor sleep, fatigue and digestive issues.  You can schedule a free introductory call to find out if Wholeness Restored is your next best step.

Unfortunately, we will never eradicate anxiety completely from our lives. But that isn’t bad since God intended it to help protect us!  The problem is when anxiety dominates our lives because we perceive everything as a threat.  So, let’s honor the important role of anxiety and take steps to reduce the causes of anxiety so it will stay within its healthy boundary that God intended.

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This overloads the nervous system, making it difficult to process and respond appropriately. Additionally, multi-tasking, excessive demands, and the daily pressure of managing life can add to the overload on the nervous system. Overstimulation can trigger a stress response, causing your body to release extra cortisol and adrenaline, sending you into fight, flight, or freeze. In fight or flight, you might find yourself more irritable or anxious. Your mind is racing, and you can’t settle down. In freeze, you may notice that you feel emotionally numb or apathetic and unmotivated. To distract from the uncomfortable symptoms of fight, flight, or freeze, we often reach for more stimulation in the form of social media or other entertainment. This creates a vicious cycle in the body. Women particularly, deal with the negative effect of overstimulation. There is the cultural pressure to “do it all”. To curate the perfect Instagram feed, to workout to have the perfect body, to make sure the kids don’t miss out on any opportunity, to perform to earn that promotion at work. The constant demands truly are overwhelming and overstimulating! Cultivating a Lifestyle That Promotes Emotional Balance There are several beginning steps you can take to reduce stimulation and create an environment that does not overwhelm the nervous system, so you can feel more emotionally balanced. Set household boundaries with technology. For example, no phones during mealtimes. No technology for 1-2 hours before bed. (Blue light from screens suppresses melatonin production, interfering with restful sleep.) Set a time limit on social media or gaming apps. Don’t check emails after you leave work. Dim the lights in the evening. Create intentional quiet time. Spend 30 minutes per day or 4 hours per weekend doing something that is restful and restorative. I talked more about this in my last blog post. This may be napping, but it could also be games as a family, taking a walk in nature, playing with a pet, reading a book or taking a bath. Prioritize self-care. You can’t take care of your family or meet reasonable expectations if you don’t first take care of yourself. Are you sleeping 7-8 hours per night? Do you eat 20-25 grams of protein with every meal? Are you getting moderate exercise 3-4 times per week if you default to fight or flight mode? Are you stretching daily and taking walks if you default to freeze mode? Are you limiting caffeine and drinking sufficient water? I find that one of my biggest challenges with overstimulation as a Christian is to be still long enough to hear God. You too? It has been helpful to me to have a designated time and place to meet with God each day. I want this area to be free of distractions. I silence my phone so I am not interrupted. One of the most powerful ways for me to reset my emotions after overstimulation is to rest in God. 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By Rachel Rauch • December 1, 2024
Have you ever felt your heart race during a stressful situation, experienced brain fog in the heat of a moment, or found yourself going along with something just to keep the peace? These reactions are tied to the body’s survival mechanisms: fight, flight, freeze, and fawn. They often originate from past traumatic experiences or ongoing stress. Though they may help us in acute situations, chronic activation can have long-term consequences on our physical and mental health. Let’s look at how each response impacts your body and mind—and what you can do to restore balance.  Stress responses are hardwired into us as part of the autonomic nervous system, designed to help us survive threats. These responses were critical when our ancestors faced physical dangers in the wild. However, in modern life, our stressors are often more psychological than physical—like teaching school, social conflicts, or financial concerns. Unfortunately, our bodies can’t always tell the difference. Here’s a breakdown of the four main stress responses: Fight - This is an aggressive response to perceived danger, marked by anger, frustration, or the urge to confront the threat. Flight - This response pushes you to avoid or escape the threat, leading to behaviors such as running away or avoiding conflict altogether. Freeze - When neither fight nor flight seems viable, the body may become immobilized. This can show up as indecision, dissociation, or feeling stuck. Fawn - This response involves people-pleasing or appeasing the threat, often sacrificing personal needs to avoid conflict or gain approval. While these responses are essential for survival in short bursts, they take a toll when activated repeatedly or chronically. Let’s dive into the effects each has on your health. 1. The Fight Response and Its Health Implications When you’re in fight mode, the body gears up for a confrontation. Adrenaline and cortisol levels spike, causing your heart to race and muscles to tense up. You are ready for action! Physical health impacts of that are: Insomnia: It is hard to sleep when your body is primed to fight! Muscle tension and headaches: Digestive issues: Blood flow is diverted away from digestion, potentially leading to conditions like irritable bowel syndrome (IBS). And the Mental health impacts include: Chronic anger and irritability: If you're always in fight mode, it can lead to burnout, anxiety, or depression. Difficulty in relationships: Constant conflict or defensiveness can alienate loved ones, creating isolation or loneliness. 2. The Flight Response and Avoidance Patterns In flight mode, your body’s focus is on escaping, whether physically or emotionally. While it may seem safer to avoid situations, constantly running from stress can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms. Physical health impacts of that are: Poor sleep again: Similar to the fight response, chronic activation of the flight response keeps your body ramped up, unable to relax to sleep. Fatigue: The constant state of alertness can lead to adrenal fatigue and poor sleep, where your body is depleted from the never-ending need to “run away.” And the Mental health impacts include: Anxiety disorders: Avoidance can lead to social isolation, reinforcing anxiety and making the stressor seem even larger. Procrastination and perfectionism: Constant avoidance can create a cycle of procrastination, making it harder to accomplish tasks and exacerbating stress levels. 3. Freeze: The Health Impact of Feeling “Stuck” In freeze mode, the body shuts down to avoid a threat. This can happen when you feel powerless or overwhelmed by a situation. While freezing may feel protective, it can be paralyzing. Physical health impacts of that are: Immobility-related issues: Being stuck, whether emotionally or physically, can contribute to muscle stiffness and low energy levels and even constipation. Suppressed immune function: Prolonged stress can weaken the immune system, making you more susceptible to illness. And the Mental health impacts include: Dissociation: Chronic freezing can lead to emotional numbness, disconnection from reality, and difficulty engaging with the world. Depression: The sense of helplessness often associated with freezing is a common feature in depression, making it harder to break free from the cycle. 4. The Fawn Response and People-Pleasing Fawning, or the tendency to appease others to avoid conflict, may seem like a harmless way to maintain peace. However, neglecting your own needs can have a profound impact on both your physical and mental health. Physical health impacts of that are: Chronic stress: By constantly bending to others' needs, your body remains in a prolonged state of stress, leading to fatigue and tension. Digestive issues: Similar to other stress responses, fawning can trigger digestive problems as the body’s energy is diverted from rest-and-digest functions. And the Mental health impacts include: Loss of self-identity: Fawning can erode your sense of self, as you may prioritize others’ desires over your own just to maintain peace. Low self-esteem and resentment: Over time, the act of people-pleasing can foster resentment, frustration, and feelings of unworthiness. Healing from Chronic Stress Responses Recognizing which stress response you default to is the first step toward breaking the cycle. Here are some practices that can help: Begin to notice how your body feels throughout the day in different scenarios. Do you feel engaged? Tense? Disconnected? This awareness can help you identify your stress triggers and habitual responses. Movement, especially aerobic exercises like running, walking, or swimming, can help discharge the fight or flight energy, bringing your nervous system back to balance. For those who freeze or dissociate, practices like focusing on your breath or engaging with your physical senses can help bring you back to the present moment. Try the 5-4-3-2-1 exercise: notice 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch (different textures), 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell and1 thing you can taste. If you tend to fawn, learning to set clear boundaries is critical. Setting boundaries are not to force the other person to change but to help protect you. Therefore, you don’t set a boundary on them, but on you. It can be helpful to bring in the support of a professional therapist to help you process past trauma or chronic stress that is interfering with your current life. Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn are natural responses to stress, but chronic activation can have a detrimental effect on your well-being. Understanding your patterns and taking proactive steps to manage stress will not only improve your mental and physical health but also help you feel more balanced, present, and empowered in your life. By tuning into your body’s cues and cultivating healthier coping mechanisms, you can transform these instinctual responses into conscious, empowered choices.
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