The Bryce Canyon Tree That Wouldn't Quit
A few weeks ago I had the privilege of going on a hiking trip to the Southwest. One of the parks we visited was Bryce Canyon National Park. The sky looked moody as we started down the trail, and I was reminded that hikers had been rescued off this trail when a flash flood tore through the canyon just the week before. The floor of the canyon still showed debris from the ferocity of the water.
I loved looking at all the columns of hoodoos and the striking orange rock formations, but this lone tree caught my attention, and I thought about it all week.
It didn't stand tall and majestic. It looked more scrubby and worn. Its roots were exposed from years of erosion as they attempted the almost impossible task of finding water and nutrients in a thin layer of dirt over hard rock. It twisted and turned as it leaned into the harsh elements nature threw its way. And yet it stood, almost defiant against its environment.
I think that tree represents how many of us feel at times. Maybe most of the time!
- Tired.
- Worn out.
- Battered.
- Barely hanging on.
- Stifled by our environment.
- Starving for nourishment — emotionally, physically, relationally, or spiritually.
- Utterly depleted.
But the tenacity of that tree is what struck me the most. And I wondered: what gave it that tenacity? And what can I learn from it?
I noticed it didn't try to be the tallest, most beautiful tree in the park. But it definitely developed its potential. It persevered against the harsh elements. There was life in that tree even if its growth seemed stunted!
Our tendency is to compare our lives with someone else's — a friend we envy, maybe, or a stranger on social media. But our environment isn't identical to theirs. Often it's drastically different. And yet we compare and expect the same outcome. We berate ourselves for not living up to their potential. I smile sometimes at how silly we are. That tree would have been judged a failure next to the trees in the national forests we passed through on our trip, but it was a beautiful, resilient tree overcoming incredible odds right where it was growing.
My friends, please join me in the hard work of resisting comparison and focusing instead on the potential God is developing within each of us.
I was also amazed by the tree's root system. It didn't try to burrow straight down. It spread out, and it's still spreading despite the erosion.
That tree doesn't depend solely on its trunk, branches, or even leaves to support it. Sure, all of those play a role, but its root system is what gives it the most support and keeps it anchored on top of the rock.
Who is your root system? For me, it's God, my family and close friends, my church community, and my clients, who bring so much purpose to what I do. I've learned that when things are hard, I need a root system bigger than myself. I've humbled myself and leaned into the support of others when the elements of life felt too harsh to withstand on my own.
If you find yourself floundering, please reach out and ask for help. Yes, there will always be excuses not to ask, but God intended the family of God to be each other's root system. Don't stay isolated in your struggles.
Lastly, I noticed that the tree leaned into the elements. It developed resilience by embracing its environment instead of trying to avoid it. This is hard to do! When I feel overwhelmed or anxious, I often want to hide or numb out to escape the feelings. You too?
But I've learned that resilience is built by addressing the hard things while still honoring the limits of my body. This might look like:
- Prioritizing sleep during a stressful period.
- Addressing my emotions when something hard happens.
- Saying no when my schedule is too full to show up well for each commitment.
- Asking for help when I need it.
- Evaluating how my health may be interfering.
This tree didn't become a symbol of resilience overnight. It took time and many adjustments for it to develop its strength and capacity. The same is true for you and me. So often we want healing to happen and resilience to develop in a moment. But it takes time.
If you find yourself longing for the resilience of this Bryce Canyon tree, begin today with one step. Decide if you need to seek extra support, cut the contributors to comparison, or prioritize your health. Just one small step begins the path to resilience!
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